In our upheavel of the house (no picture. sorry) I came across a spiral sketchbook that I purchased exclusively for Drew & his "art." I wanted to keep an ongoing progression of his scribblings and doodles. Nothing very structured or perfect. Just for fun. Well, it had been packed away some time ago and it was recently unearthed. Drew's last entry was just after he turned 2, so I wanted to start it up again. I decided to recreate some birthday ideas that is in this birthday book by Amy Krouse Rosenthal I got for Jack.
The design is so adorable and I love the book but I didn't want to leave the Drewster out. So I got out my (er, drew's) crayons and started coloring away. I mentioned this interview idea earlier and told some of you I'd post it in detail, thus the looong post! SO here it is:
[Everything underlined would be blank for personalization.]
conducted by MOMMY with ANDREW on TUES. MARCH 18th, 2008 at the DINING ROOM TABLE. ANDREW is sporting his "CHOCOLATE" CORDUROY PANTS & IS STILL IN HIS PJ SHIRT. (oops) It's 11:05AM.
(I added this myself) ANDREW'S STATE IS INTERESTED & EATING A GINGER CHEW COOKIE & DRINKING SOME MILK. He's ANTSY & ASKING TONS OF ?'s. SO LET'S GO:
1. What is your Favorite Color: YELLOW...(AND BLUE & PINK & PURPLE)
2. What do you think of when you hear the word:
Home: watching videos & playing. (nice)
Sibling: (I said brother) playing with Jack in his pack 'n play.
Magic: "how can daddy get pictures from his blank drawing book?"
Bedtime: reading books & music. I like mommy to put me to sleep.
Love: sleeping with you in your bed. (we usually all pile in our bed in the morning if the boys wake up before we do)
3. What makes you feel sad? nightmares
4. What makes you feel happy? pixel & seaweed (his 2 favorite stuffed animals)
5. What makes you feel scared? a witch (a "scary" witch figure was out at halloween at home depot and he has never forgotten it)
6. If you could have any animal as a pet, what would it be? a little, little, little, little puppy
7. What do you want to be when you grow up? to play outside with my children
8. Do you like your name? (a smile & nod of head)
9. Who is the last person you kissed? mommy!!!
***Page 2: I'll spare you the details, but I also jotted these down about his birthday.
"YOUR BIG DAY"
*time i woke up
*first thing i said
*what i wore
*fun morning activities
*lunch of choice
*my special supper
*gifts i opened
*places we went, people we saw
*favorite part of the day
"FUNNY THING YOU SAID RECENTLY"
(I drew 5 different sized quote brackets and filled each one with a funny thing he said)
"WHEN I CLOSE MY EYES, THIS IS HOW I PICTURE YOU"
(captivate in your words how you would describe your cutie patootie. keeping the memory of personality, looks, mannerisms, etc. alive. it's amazing how quickly we forget as they move from one stage to the next)
"HOW WE CELEBRATED YOUR BIG DAY"
"GIFT LIST" (for thank you's + remembering)
WELL, there you have it. Another great thing that I have done is gone on a "date" with just Drew to Barnes & Nobles and gotten a yummy treat and grabbed the latest WONDERTIME magazine. They usually have a great little insert called "instant journal" (although not in their latest...I hope they're not doing away with it) that I go through with Drew. It always has some great little questions and even activities such as: "what is your favorite animal" or "draw your child's hand here," etc. Just those neat little things to captivate those moments in CONNECTING with your child & making memories! Simple things throughout life. They don't necessarily need to cost anything except maybe a bit of time & care & attention (and whatever a hot chocolate & PB chunk cookie costs at starbucks!).
p.s. pleeeeease share with me how you like to connect with your kids and if you decide to try out the interview and how it went! i love feedback! (hint, hint!) :)